Do you love her enough to let go of her? - Ming & Joey (Esp. 7)

The typhoon signal was removed after Joey went home at 8pm.

Joey was sitting at home alone waiting for Ming’s call, she knew she should not pick up Edwin’s call, and should tell Ming that they hanged out…

She just don’t want to. Obviously she was guilt with it!

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“Do…..Do...” Joey has been waiting for his call for two days, and she finally failed to insist and call him…

No one answered and no call backs. Joey didn’t realize the problem but there is a strange feeling – instead of worrying about him, she…started to feel…"relief"?!

But Joey missed him very much, so she called again at night.

“Hey, my girl, how do you do?” Ming finally picked up.

“Where are you? It has been two days…” Joey sobbed.

“I know, I saw Edwin and you in the street and I went home instead of meeting you for lunch. Is there something you need to tell me?” Ming stayed peaceful.

“No, it is not what you think…” Joey replied with tears on her face, she has made a big mistake, and didn’t dare to talk more…

“Its OK, I am OK. We will be OK, trust me, got to go, call you later, ah?” Ming was still graceful, but Joey can hear the sorrow from his voice. She knows what he thought too.

“OK, see you.” Words are limited.

Joey understood what’s going to happen, she knows Ming well, she knew he had decided something, that she didn’t want to find out…

He will never call back, he has moved on to his new life.

She waited for his call every day, but didn’t dare to call him, for not to get the results she left behind, no matter it is: no one picking up or Ming told her it’s over directly, she just didn’t want to get the final answer.

"IT IS OVER…" Joey cried her heart out set free the helplessness.

(To be continued…)

Do you love her enough to let go of her? - Ming & Joey (Esp. 6)

It’s the first typhoon signal No.8 of the summer, it rains heavily and the storm destroyed lots of trees and billboards everywhere.

Everyone was off from working except cops and part of the social service centres.

Ming was working hard as usual (He is a cop of HKSAR), but there was something in his mind and yes, that was Joey…

He knew Joey was not happy, no matter what he did, she’s just not HAPPY…

Ming had tried everything he could think of to change the situation, but he failed to find any clue to the solutions.

All he wanted is only one thing: Make her happy, amaze her.

“The problem is not me, its her.” Ming knew.

“As I turned up the collar of…my favorite winter coat, this wind is blowing my mind…” Ming was expecting the ring tone ended and Edwin’s voice jump up to the air, and he was disappointed again.

The calls were not answered by Edwin.

That’s odd!

Edwin was a very responsible person, and was used to call back in short when there was a missed call.

“But recently he didn’t reply my calls and hang up fast for different reasons even when the calls were answered…” Ming had a strange feeling…

Ming has been trying to call Edwin because he needs Edwin’s help in his relationship with Joey.

Edwin is like his teacher all the time, he knew people and is so thoughtful, especially the girls, he knew what to do.

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Edwin was not as cute as Ming, but instead, he is more talented and sensitive which makes him charming and popular as well as Ming.

In my opinion, when you see them two standing together, Ming is the one drawing your attention first, and when you started talking you’ll find Edwin’s special attraction, that is something inside out…

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In the afternoon, after a twelve hours night shift, Ming was exhausted but he decided to go to Joey’s home and meet her for lunch, he decided not to call her until arrived, because he knew she would be staying at home under the typhoon and expecting his call, he wanted to surprise her.

That happens very often when there were ideas crashed into his mind. He remembered Joey used to like his ideas and was amazed all the time with a lovely face, he missed those smiles very much…

He walked down the street and turned right to Joey’s apartment in Kwun Tong.

When he arrived the shopping mall behind the building, he called at Joey's home but nobody answered....


While he was starting the second call, he saw Joey who just came out of the building, Edwin was right there waiting…

The picture crashed over Ming’s head, that really hurts…

He decided to go to Edwin and punch his face the second he understood everything!

But soon he stepped back and returned to hide in the corner when he saw Joey’s face, she is happy and joyful, unlike that hanging out with him...

When Joey was with him she was fond but unhappy, she likes making love with him, that is something cannot be pretended and not

necessary to…

Girls are different with boys, most of them cannot separate sex and love, you can test her by observing her reactions in bed.
("most", not all girls, some of us are good at playing games in fact~)

They are perfect matched in bed, but that’s all, she doesn’t enjoy living with him. Ming suddenly understood.

“Sex partners?”

“No!” Ming ensured.

Ming always knew what Joey was thinking about but he doesn’t “understand” her, exactly as he doesn’t understand himself.

(We all have more or less the same problem, haven’t we? We always work for something and found that the thing was not what we desired when we actually got there…)

Ming had made the decision instantly, he turned back to his way home and thought that he needed some rest.

He was gone back to his life, the boy has grown up.

(To be continued…)

Do you love her enough to let go of her? - Ming & Joey (Esp. 5)

The typhoon signal No.8 was effected today, so Joey has an extra holiday at home.

Joey got up watching the news and messages from the HK Observatory, despite having slept for only two hours, she couldn’t fall asleep again as she was used to be when the typhoon came.  

She starred at the television screen without even watching or listening to what’s playing…

It was hard to see a smile on her face since the day she came across Ming…

Was it because of the secret she buried?

Actually Joey had made up her mind after the first kiss with Ming. (Yes, it was the kisses all over!)

Have you ever been kissed like: “ I want you to faint and you’re just simply unconscious”?!

It was the kiss made her decided never going back.

But…Does Ming belongs with her? That’s the question!

“We have been trying to talk more and spent less time in bed, but there is nothing changed, something was wrong…the gate was not opened up, damn it!”

Obviously it is painful for both of them, life is just killing them…

“Maybe we should just let it be what it should be? Like the “playmates”?”

Joey couldn’t believe the idea was out from her head, but at least she is being honest to herself.

Unfortunately, Ming doesn’t want a sex partner or a short relationship at all, he never was a player, ever.

“Do…Do…” Her cell phone rang when she is thinking about those silly things…

“How do you do, J?” It was Edwin, AGAIN!

“J” - Edwin called Joey a nickname that Ming haven’t even heard about…and Joey smiled purely, she was happy with Edwin always calls her in time.

They have endless topics to talk about: politics, relationships, art and music, they argue on something at first and the arguments end up laughing to the conclusions they made together…

That was something never happens between she and Ming…

“Hey, silly, how about I come over and you buy me a lunch?” Edwin laughed with a spoiling tongue.

(LUNCH…Yes that was lunch time, there phone conversation extended from the AM to lunch time!)

“And you buy me the coffee!” Joey hit back.

YES.

When Edwin said he might be fighting with Ming if he agreed picking up that phone to Joey asking her out, he wasn’t joking.

 

However, even if Ming did the call on his own, Edwin contacted Joey personally, and kept avoiding Ming any ways…

“That’s fair, we both deserved a chance!” Edwin tried to make his own statement. Actually he did try to let go, but he was into this, too…

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Joey and Edwin went out for lunch in APM and had some cakes and coffee in the Starbucks after then.

They bought several books in the bookstore of APM, read and talk about everything, until 8pm…

“Hungry?” Edwin asked.

“No, I’d like to go home, Ming could be calling soon, thank you for today…” Joey said, there actually was some sadness in her eyes every time when she brought up Ming.

“OK, go home and get some rest.” Edwin cannot bear to looking at her.

"Who started this shit? He or me?" Edwin continues to sit in the cafe alone.

(To be continued…)

Do you love her enough to let go of her? - Ming & Joey (Esp. 4)

Joey has awoken in 5 am, after 3 or 4 hours sleeping in her bed. She has trouble sleeping in these few days, thinking about what happened lately…

She met a very attractive guy, 6 ft with a strong body and smart shining face, keen and gentle, she felt very comfortable with that and was pound standing next to him.

But she could never sleep well ever since….

Without a doubt, he’s been a little too much for her, too much grace, too much romance, especially in the bed…

She could never forget the nights spent with him…It was like laying in a paradise.

He would fondle her hair during watching movies, he would keep awake Joey fell asleep.

“He even waited for two hours in the street while I was kept by my boss for overtime instant project without giving me a pushing or questioning call…What more do I want?”Joey was muttering with a sigh.

Officially, they could be a good kisser and sex partner to each other. But no more…no matter how they tried.

People see them as a perfect couple, while they are not. Is it true that all couples got problems while you think they don’t?

Yes, definitely.

 

"How are we supposed to get through the dead air and be a real couple?" The question kept blowing her mind...

She tried to get everything clear by going through the whole story:

That night was an accident when Joey went to a bar with some boring friends and got two boys outside invited chatting for fun, one of which is Ming, there is no way to say no to him, the girl was totally seduced.

They left their numbers to one another. Actually Joey didn’t expect Ming would call back because it was hard to believe such a perfect guy has no girlfriend for that moment…

And finally he called…

After Joey was back to her way home, he called and they hanged out again, without Ming’s other  friend-Edwin.

They went to The Avenue of Stars in Tsim Sha Tsui, the beautiful environment have drown them that kisses and hugs were the only things they needed for that moment…

Joey bought Ming to her apartment as her parents were travelling in Thailand.

With the red wine’s help to unlock the shyness, they kissed and kissed and the clothes off one by one. Three times until morning…

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She cannot help thinking about this for all day.

“What a creepy day!”

Joey was distracted because she has been making mistakes for the whole working day by busy thinking about her relationship…

“It is getting out of control…” She cannot focus on anything else…

(To be continued…)

How to get a short relationship in HK?

Well, its Christmas and new year holidays... Everybody is busy preparing their plans on or before holidays.

But some people might not be in the mood...


Like those still single.


Or those getting bored by their current relationships.


Or those want a break from their crazy life...


They might be distracted by the plans and calls from people they don't like, could be the boss, parents or friends..?

You are not in a rush to get married, and even if you are, destiny is something you cannot control, when the right person doesn't exist, all you can do is wait...

But that is pathetic waiting in December, isn't it?

So a short relationship with a new friend could be a way...

It is ok, but how?


Frankly, a short relationship is not that easier than a long relationship...


A short relationship means two people met in one or two days and then end it as it never exists after hanging out or having sex, you don't talk about future and promises unless both of you think you should. 


As you don't have time to investigate the other side, you need to follow your feelings and pick somebody you like by seeing their pictures in the net, or just a few typing texts...


There is a risk. But that makes you excited anyway!

Once in a while, I am an addict to this kind of relationship, haha~


So, get on line and try!!


Remember, as a man you need to stay gentle and thoughtful, there are many things interesting to do with a girl other than having sex ;-)


And, as a girl you need to show your charms not only by your clothes and make-ups, because they are all products, while you are not! Try to let go of everything, and get off the boat when it lands.


Good luck!


Useful links:(Discuss.com.hk is good from my personal experience;-)


Take about relationships, find playmates...
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Forum: HK Golden

Merry Christmas~~~!

~Merry Christmas & Happy New Year to everybody in the planet~:-)

Fortunately I haven't got headache for a plan for Christmas.

Thanks to the wedding party of the son of my mother's sister, haha~ I finally got the chance to get into that dress, it is now in the dry cleaner, I am going to get it at 2.00pm, after office hour.

Gosh, working Sataurday sucks!!!

No bus anymore for today!! Lovely, haha~~

Keep you posted about the dress~~

Do you love her enough to let go of her? - Ming & Joey (Esp. 3)

"I am terribly sorry for the mistake I have made, I even forgot to ask you the most important question....Would you please accept my apology and be my girlfriend?"

"But..." Joey was like-dreaming and choked up...

"I know that we have trouble here, we will be good, I love you. I need a chance! If you don't give me the chance today, I will try another day." Ming said seriously.

"Then.....ok!! For your muscle's sake!" She laughed and looked at Ming's small shirt today and made a face...He always wore small size shirts to show his muscle, but its lovely indeed, haha~

Ming cannot wait walking towards her.

At that moment Ming didn't notice the sadness in the girl's eyes...

Still, they have not much to talk, having been lovers for two months and they just like the shadow to the other side, they are both used to work day and night since graduated from high school, they go to the bar one or two times a month and the rest time is for sleeping and working.

They knew each other well enough to skip the physical communication, and there is nothing in common to share, because they knew everything.

They like eating the same thing, they read the same books, and felt the same things...

Somebody said we can never make two parallel lines alternant.

However, we are human...

They were sitting next to the harbour park filled with confidence and decided to hold the moment in hand, this time is forever, screw the others!

To be continued...

Do you love her enough to let go of her? - Ming & Joey (Esp 2)

But, there are much more than funny stuff and what's up messages to maintain a relationship...

Ming soon found it has been getting much harder to understand her, Joey kept silent most of time, it was like rocket science to find a topic to start up even a conversation!


"Why is that so?" Ming confused.


"There is one thing missing!" And he finally figured something out by going through the whole story...


This is the whole story of what happened:


Joey brought him home the first night, they slept together and he called her everyday and kept asking her out every satuarday night for movies and dinners.


He held her hand, hold her in his arm and fondle her hair while enjoying movies, but never asked her to be his girlfriend.

"Holly shit!! How could I be such idiotic?!"


He called Joey immediately...

"Sorry. Today is not Satuarday, but it is important, call me when you are about to leave your office tonight, we need to talk, ok?"


"With a little couriosity, ok. But I might be late because I am not sure if I need to work overtime tonight, you meant "talk" only, right? I don't want to keep you waiting you know...So we can talk by phone instead if that happens, ah!" Replied with a little mocking tonque for his anxiety but didn't pay much attention to the sudden call.


"No problem, call me. No matter what time it could be, I am here." Ming said faithfully and sat in the harbour next to Joey's office.

This is the first sick leave he took in three years of his career, waiting for his girl. He is a cop of HKSAR, always busy like no tomorrow, that's why he was a bit pure in comparison to other 23-year-old young men in HK.


It was 3:00 pm, Joey's working hours were until 6:00pm everyday, but he had decided not going anywhere but sitting here waiting.

At 5:55 pm, Joey called that she will be attending a meeting and gave repeated advice to Ming that don't wait! "That's ok, just call me when you are about to leave the office" Ming said fondly.


Nearly 8 pm, Joey finally finished the meeting, "He must have gone..." she thought and started packing up slowly and left the building, when she walked down the street she called back Ming.

"Don't talk, I am standing behind you." Joey was startled by his lowering voice.

When Joey was taking turn quickly, without letting her speak, Ming continued, "I think this distance is good for me to express my word for the moment, so hold your ground. " 

(To be continued...)

Do you love her enough to let go of her? - Ming & Joey (Esp. 1)

"Do you remember the girl we met last night?" Ming.


"Of course! Don't beg me make that call for you! You did that everytime when you have a liking for a girl, you like her, you call her!" Edwin rolled his eyes sitting next to Ming.

Having been Ming's buddy for over ten years, Edwin knew what he was thinking by simply looking at his face...


"Because I am not used to fight for a girl, you know..." Edwin continued without waiting for Ming's question and he looked slily...


"Why fighting? Come on...she is grogoeus, smart and funny! I have to date her. " Ming wondered and knited the brows...


"Yep, that's why we might be fighting...If I picked up the phone for you." Edwin laughed at his one-track mind.


After a few second....


"Oh!! You son of bitch, don't you even think about it, she is mine!" Ming finally gets what Edwin means and yelled.


"OK, I am calling her myself this time, is it the first time I date a girl without your help?" Ming muttering like a child...


"It's time to grow up brother." Edwin said and encouraged him sincerely.

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Ming started calling Joey constantly, sometimes tell her a joke in lunch time, sometimes a what's up messages.

Ming Learned from Edwin that the girls with enthusiasm in their jobs wouldn't like to spend much time in phone conversation, so he always keeps the conversation not more than 15 minutes.

You know what it is, don't you?

He loves her voice, it was beautiful....and sexy...he can't help thinking about her perfect body, and her long dark hair and her....




That could be the hardest time Ming had been being through everyday after hanging up!
(You knew it. If you don't, damn ask!! XD)


 
He have never felt so satisfying...

Was it because of the "first time" he go directly after a girl?

Or Joey was the one to him as his destiny? Or was Joey that great to be his breath of life?


Whatever. He is totally in love with her, he will do everything for her.


(To be continue.....)

Someday I will be kissing somebody in a beach like this!

About the girl - the typical life

OK. Finally I chose to tell this story by blogging... It's hard to find another way to tell a story that surely someone will be listening.


I have many stories to share but since I am still not retired, I have to make choices among them...


Lets start with this girl, she has been influrencing me for over two dacades...


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June Tse has been living in Hong Kong since she was two. Her mother brought her to this beautiful place from Mainland China after marrying a Hong Kong resident and give birth to the little girl.

I want to upload some pictures in my iphone instead, which are much more beautiful, but....lets see if you will come back here later, haha, I will do it at home sometime, in the other posts. :-)

It was the best choice of all time, it was the worst choice of all time...


It has not been easy for her to grow up, she did think she has an emotional and lost mother, which led to the divorce of the woman's first marriage.


The sea view is beautiful, just a bit too many buildings...




As the parents separated, June failed to see her own father ever since because she knew it would piss her mother off. Most people were afraid of conflicts with thier own parents, right?


Long story short, June survived and has grown up as a beautiful girl, this is the 18th years since she has been living with her new family members.


June can never deny that Hong Kong is a place full of opportunities, when you do respect your life and struggle with what you've been told, you will make yourself a better life.

It's been a decade since I came over to see this view...ok, another plan in Christmas holiday, haha~  I really worried about this could be drowned by the buildings in the near future....



There is no wars, no serious politic problems and no natural calamities for the several decades that avoids you from dreaming what you'd like to dream, so moving in is the best choice of all time. 


Some people might argue that the environment is harsh for the high level of living standard and inflation problems with flozen salaries...


That's true. And so? There is never something out of nothing! You need money you have to work, you need job promotions you have to learn, you need chances you have to fight...  






Its good no matter day and night...



She continues to stay in Hong Kong with dreams, with hopes and try to get everything she wanted by all means.


In Dec 2011, she has been busy joining and preparing for the Christmas Parties.


Will you be there?


Cheers!!